Looks like shes gonna get...

A good girl spanking... ohh yes please

Restrained

And made to take the ginger.... ohh I feel her pain

The sleeve roll

So the last picture I posted got me thinking...

About the sleeve roll

The dreadful moment when you are being lectured and trying to figure out just how much trouble you are in

Then it happens..

He unbuttons the cuff of his shirt sleeve and begins to roll it up!

This will allow him a better range of motion as he punishes your bare bottom.

As the fear and panic sets in, you struggle to listen as he lectures you about being so naughty.

It's like the sleeve is talking over him, taunting you with the fact that your husband is about to wear you ass out!

The sleeve is now rolled tightly up over his elbow and you can manage to keep your eyes off of it.

That is until you hear is belt buckle

It seems to be happening in slow motion now

He un does his belt and pulls it free of the loops on his pants

You hear every sound as though it's being played over a loud speaker.

And he says "Time to start young lady, just remember I love you and this is for your own good"

And as you turn to bend over the bed and present your bottom to him to be bared for a hard spanking

You take one last look at him, and the fact that he has just partial undressed himself (while giving you a dressing down with his lecture)  in order to better teach you this lesson is not lost on you

Truth be told, he looks sexy and although you are nervous about the spanking that is coming in mere seconds, you can't help but feel that tingling elsewhere.

That image will stay etched in you brain forever.

You man standing there, his sleeve rolled up, belt in hand (folded over hopefully), the determined set of his jaw, and the look of love in his eyes.......

OTK Caning

"Please no more Sir I'll be goooooddddd!"

Is it over???

I think he is still deciding!

Not gonna be able to rub that away!

Chores left unfinished..

Means a hard otk spanking!

But Sir, we are outside!!!

Daddys belt is coming off!!!

Oh no not the thighs!

A ginger caning

Is it good to be naughty or naughty to be good?

Sorry about the spelling errors.. just wanted to get the story out and written down.


She met him at the door, she was dressed as she had been told to be, in her little white nighty. Sir loved how it pushed her boobs up and the sheer white fabric looked great against her skin. She was so exited to see him, it seemed like they had been apart for way longer then it had really been. She was also nervous because from the text messages he had been sending her she knew he was in rare form. He wrapped his arms around her waist as she hung on his neck. They kissed and as his tongue slipped into her mouth she felt her knees get a little weak. She was always in aw of the affect he had on her after all this time. Her skin was tingling everywhere that they were touching and her breath quickened at the thoughts that raced through her head. How hard would he take her? She had promised herself she wouldnt scream, cry or beg, no matter how rough he was. As they stood there kissing she felt on hand leave her waist and then it was between her legs, He was rubbing her clit through her tiny thong. She let out a moan as he worked her into a frenzy, then he stopped just as she was about to cum.  She almost let out a whine and caught herself just before she did so, she was not going to fuss, she would take it like a good girl. She put a hand on his pants and she could feel his rock hard cock and again had to keep herself from whimpering. When they had sex, it was always an ordeal for her, Sirs cock was so big and he knew how to use it to make her sore for days. It was a good sore, a yummy feeling, but it hurt and sometimes it hurt a lot. He liked to point out that she liked it when it hurt and that the harder he fucked her, the wetter she got and even as she begged him to stop she would be cumming. He was right, she enjoyed the feeling him hammer her, and even as she cried from the pain she wanted more. He broke his hold on her and got undressed. He took off his belt and set it on the night stand where it would be in reach if he felt it was needed.  He then began kissing her again and as she rubbed his throbbing cock, he pushed his hand back between her legs and this time her forced two fingers inside her. She took a sharp breath in as she felt his fingers exploring, and then he began to thrust them in and out as he rubbed her clit again. He moved her legs wider apart and all of the sudden, as quickly as his fingers had entered her, she was left empty. He put his fingers in her mouth so that she could clean them properly. As she sucked them he teased her with his cock, rubbing it against her clit and then entering her dripping pussy, but just a little bit, before pulling back and making her wait. At this point when she didnt whine or beg him to fuck her, he understood that she was trying to prove she could take whatever he gave her without a peep. "Well we will see about that." he thought. He continued to tease her as she squirmed beneath him and then with no warning he slammed his cock all the way in. She let out a yelp, but then she drew a deep breath and bit down on her lip as he began using her pussy hard. He moved his cock form side to side making sure he got every inch as he pumped hard, fast and so very deep. She began to really squirm around underneath him and so grabbed her wrists and with one of his big strong hands, he pinned her wrists above her head. She whispered "Please no" but nothing else as he picked up the pace even more. "I guess I am not getting through to you, you must not be able to feel me very well since you are being so quiet" he said in her ear breathlessly, and with that he pulled out of her. He picked up his belt and as her eyes widened with fear her wrapped it around her wrists. He then wiped his cock off with a towel and rolled her onto he tummy and pushed his cock between her ass checks. She was trying to understand what was happening as she felt the head of his dry cock pushing into her tight ass. She bite down on the pillow under her head to keep from screaming as he forced himself all the way in. He began fuking her ass harder then he had used her pussy and still she was resisting him. He was squeezing her breast as he thrust deep into her over and over. He let go of her left breast and put his and into her hair and pulled tightly, yanking her head away from the pillow. And with that he finally broke her, she screamed loudly and began to cry and beg him to cum, to fill her sore ass with his hot cum. He let go of her hair, pushed his hand under her and found her clit, he rubbed and squeezed it roughly until he felt her shake with pleasure and then he let go erupted inside her.  As she lay there drenched in sweat and tears, she knew and could feel in every inch of her body that she was his naughty little girl and there was reason for her to pretend she was anything but that. 

Someones gonna get it!

Over the pillows and waiting..

Yup I know that position all to well! Daddy and I are both traveling all day today, and I will be doing so with a sore and slightly bruised bum... it was a long week last week with lessons for both of us. I got a firm reminder last night, 25 hard strokes of the cane with my bum pushed up over the pillows.
Afterwords we talked and cuddled and made up form the night before! It was a very nice evening!!!

OTK Caning!

Wed warm up

Stinging bottom this morning, first day back is always hard, so Daddy already had a plan.

Before he boarded his flight this morning we chatted for a few minutes..
"put your cream on Baby, you first day back East is always rough and you are gonna need a reminder to be calm and focus on you temper. Clips and cream today Sweetie, and remember Daddy loves you. Oh and you behaviour this morning will help me decide if you will get another dose this afternoon or this evening before our session, so keep that in mind!"

Of course that made my heart skip a few beats, boy does he know how to get my blood going with the way he words things! All I could manage was a weak "yes Sir."

Today will in fact be a crazy day, after a full day lost to travel, there is so much to catch up on and get done, but I will do it with a smile and of course a burning bum!

Have a great Wed blog land!

Missing my Daddy

After everything we went through last week, we cme out stronger and I am really hating being away from him right now... DD is working for us and when we take time to talk through things, it gets better and better, at times I get down and wonder why we do this, but I know it's for the best and I see the results everyday. I just hope I can be his good baby girl this trip.

the Awful Red Paddle

red paddle at cane-iac

Spanked for forgotten Bluetooth.

Use link to the right to create your own ...

Ella was in trouble and she knew it. She wondered if Sir would spank her right away or make her wait. ''Waiting is the worst!'' she thought, though in this case maybe it would be better to put it off... She didn't need to speculate, though, she'd know soon enough - she could hear a man's footsteps approaching the door. As she watched, the handle turned with what seemed like an unnatural slowness. An icy hand gripped her right in the middle of her bottom.

''Act natural,'' she told herself, which only caused her to give a nervous giggle just as her Lover walked in.

''What's wrong?'' Sir asked immediately.

''Me? Nothing! Why do you ask?''

''Just that you have a strange look on your face.'' So much for ''natural,'' Ella thought. Sir continued. ''Okay, what have you done?''

''Um... nothing?''

''Ella...''

''Yes, Sir?''

''Come on, out with it. Now.'' He had never been all that patient in these situations and was already heading toward The bedroom. Ella hurried to head him off.

''It's nothing, honest. It's just that... Well, I...'' Try as she might, she couldn't think of a way to make it sound any better.

''I forgot. My Bluetooth and answered some calls while driving,'' she said with a rush. Sir stopped in his tracks, slowly turning to look at her.

''Isabella Nicole! It's nothing, honest?'' he mocked in a voice of disbelief. ''It doesn't sound like nothing. It sounds a lot like Forgetting Bluetooth .'' Ella felt herself tighten at that word - it had unfortunate connotations - unfortunate for her and unfortunate for her bottom. ''We've talked about Forgetting Bluetooth , haven't we?'' Sir's speech went on. ''We have a way of dealing with Forgetting Bluetooth , don't we, Young lady?'' Every time he used the term ''Forgetting Bluetooth '' he might as well be saying ''spanking,'' she thought. ''Isabella Nicole, you do know how we deal with Forgetting Bluetooth , don't you?'' Instinctively Ella's hands shot back to cover her bottom, in a way answering Sir's question very clearly. Though that's not the answer her voice gave.

''Well, I know... but... I thought... maybe this time...

''You thought maybe this time what, Young lady? That you wouldn't be spanked? That Forgetting Bluetooth wouldn't get you a good bare-bottomed spanking?''

Ella didn't want a spanking - Sir's spankings hurt! While she was getting them they stung like mad - she was always convinced she just had to get away and never could - and they left her so sore! Not just sore, very sore - sore like when you sit down a long time later you can still feel it like you just got it, that kind of sore. And she certainly didn't want one of those - especially not on her bare bottom!

And that was exactly how her Lover was going to spank her - over his knee, her head down, Jeans off, bottom up, panties down, bottom bare, her Creamy skin inviting his stern reproval! Sir had never once let her keep her panties up. Quickly Ella's mind raced to remember what panties she'd put on, thankful that her Teal ones wouldn't add any to her embarrassment - having her bottom bared was embarrassing enough as it was!

Part of her wanted to run and hide, but most of her simply followed Sir into The bedroom - The bedroom, where she was always taken to be spanked. Much as she hated getting a spanking, especially one of Sir's spankings, she really did dislike Forgetting Bluetooth and really wished she could stop doing it. If having her Lover spank her would stop her from Forgetting Bluetooth , maybe that was a good thing - if only it didn't have to be such a spanking!

Once in The bedroom, Sir looked at her sternly as he sat on storage bench, extending his legs as her soon-to-be ''resting'' place. My God, already? Ella thought to herself, but Sir, instead of immediately motioning her over his lap and into place, clasped a hand on each of her arms.

''Now Baby, I want to be fair about this, you know that, I hope. You should also know that I'm disappointed to hear about your Forgetting Bluetooth .'' Ella's spirits sunk even lower, though for a new reason now. She didn't like to disappoint Sir. ''Very,'' he added. Maybe she really did deserve a spanking. ''I want you to tell me how this happened,'' he concluded. She tried to bow her head but with a gentle touch he raised her chin and made her look him in the eye.

''I don't know...'' was all she could think of to tell him. It would take too long to explain and not do any good anyway - but he wasn't about to settle for that.

''This Forgetting Bluetooth of yours, it must have had some reason. It didn't just happen, now did it? And I want you to tell me how or why it did.'' His face hardened even further. ''And you are going to tell me.''

''It's like this - I needed to makes sure they weren't emergencys .''

''I see. Ella?''

''Yes, Sir?''

''Did I just hear anything that would keep me from giving you a spanking? Anything that would discourage me from giving you each and every swat of the spanking you've earned?''

''I don't know... maybe...'' she replied sullenly.

''Isabella Nicole.''

''No. I guess not...''

''No. Nothing I heard dissuades me in the least. You, Young lady, have behaved yourself into a panties-down spanking and now you are going to get it.''

Fighting off thoughts of how soon Sir would have her Creamy bare and blushing, Ella moved hesitantly to her Lover's side and was a little surprised when he didn't immediately pull her over his waiting lap. Glancing up at his stern face, her surprise turned to dismay and she felt her stomach tighten.

''Oh no,'' she said softly, hopelessly.

''Oh yes,'' came his reply. ''You know better.''

''No, really - please? I don't need that... do I?'' This last was no more than a whisper.

''You need to learn, and the Red paddle helps you learn. Don't make me waste my time - spanking you by hand has never changed a thing.

''Go,'' Sir demanded and commanded.

Reluctantly - very reluctantly - Ella trudged off to get the Red paddle. Retrieving it from On top of the bookshelf, she took just a tiny moment to feel both its unfeeling undefined and her own twinge of rebelliousness - ooo, to throw it, hide it, destroy it! Now that would be satisfying! Instead, the Red paddle would have its satisfaction on her, heating, punishing, scalding her poor helpless bottom. And if she ever did manage to do away with it, Ella had no doubt that Sir would produce something even worse to deal with her current infraction and that additional one as well!

Shaking herself free of such imaginings, Ella and her thoughts returned to The bedroom and her Lover's side, meekly proffering the demanded and dreaded Red paddle, knowing full well that in mere moments it would be blistering her bottom, and thoroughly. Her poor little bottom! What did it ever do? It wasn't the one that had a problem with Forgetting Bluetooth , she was. Why should it have to suffer? It just wasn't fair!

Oblivious to these objections, Sir still sat like a deity on storage bench, waiting to tumble her over his unforgiving thighs. As he reached to take the Red paddle from her, she pulled it back slightly.

''You'll start slowly, won't you?'' She knew she wasn't supposed to ask and he always replied with ''Is that what you deserve, Young lady?'' But this once Sir just took the Red paddle from her and nodded sympathetically.

Seeing his reaction Ella realized that she must be in even more trouble than she imagined. Her whole body stiffened and shook and she couldn't keep herself from turning and trying to run away - but Sir was too quick for her, he'd grabbed her wrist even as the Red paddle left her hand. Before she knew it she was over his knee and the blood was rushing to her head.

Spank! He began immediately - spank spank spank spank spank!


''Ow! Oh! Wait!'' No matter how much time Sir would take leading up to it, the first swat always startled her. Alternating stiffening and squirming, she quickly sunk into place as her Lover jostled her for a better and steadier grip.

Spank spank spank - spank spank spank spank! spank! spank! spank! spank!

''Ow! No! Too hard!'' Ella protested, though really her Jeans muffled the effect considerably - nearly all of this pain was caused by her own tension and apprehension. So far!

Spank spank spank spank! spank! spank!

''Ow ow ow!'' she continued, only to have Sir chastise her further.

''Settle down, Young lady - we haven't even started. I''m just getting you settled in. You can't even feel anything through your Jeans.''

Spank spank spank! spank spank! spank spank!

''No, no! I feel it! I do! don't!'' Ella insisted somewhat nonsensically - the chance that he would stop already was non-existent.

''Shall I stop already? I thought I was doing this for you - you do know what's next, don't you?''

Ah - here was the dilemma upon whose horns Ella lay. To be spanked over her Jeans, and therefore longer - or to shorten it a little and jump right to ''pants-down''? Or even panties-down? She made the same coward's choice she always had before.

Spank spank spank spank - spank spank spank! spank spank!

''No, no - that's okay,'' she decided immediately, and having done so found that this phase was much more tolerable. Maybe by the time he gets to my bare bottom I'll be ready, Ella thought. Right. And maybe his arm will wear out first - or I'll just fly to the moon!

Spank spank spank - spank spank spank spank! spank! spank! spank! spank!

''Owww. Owwwwww,'' Ella moaned softly, concluding that some sort of reaction was still in her favor. ''Hey! Wait!'' For no sooner had she resigned herself to an over-the-Jeans spanking than the Jeans-spanking was over! ''Stop! Not yet!''

''Oh?'' Spank spank spank spank!!! ''Haven't had enough yet? I thought you were in a hurry!'' Spank spank spank spank!!! Ella's Lover saw to it that these final swats before her Jeans deserted her made all the more of an impression.

''OW! Geez!'' She twisted around in an attempt to see if he was still using his hand - it seemed harder than ever! All she managed to see was Sir removing her first line of defense. He slid the Dark blue fabric off her bottom, revealing her Teal panties.

Spank spank spank spank!!! Haaaaah, Ella thought.

''Haaaaaaah!'' Ella said. She had thought of her Jeans as sort of insubstantial it but had been giving her more protection than she realized - now with nothing between his hand and her thin panties his every spank stung and stung to high heaven! Spank spank! spank spank! spank spank spank! spank spank spank!

''Owwwwooooooo? Oww? Ow, ow?'' In her mind Ella questioned if Sir really needed to spank her quite this completely.

Picking up on this, her Lover didn't hesitate. ''If you didn't want this spanking, Young lady, you shouldn't have been Forgetting Bluetooth ,'' he decreed, his logic unassailable. Like she hadn't thought of that! ''You know what Forgetting Bluetooth gets you - maybe next time you'll have an easier time deciding what you really want!''

''Grrrr,'' Ella grrrr'd - quietly.

Spank spank spank spank spank spank spank! spank spank spank spank spank spank spank!

''Ow oh ow oh ow ow ow!''

From long experience Sir knew just what he was doing. Half or more of his spanks landed where her panties had ridden up due to her unflattering position. Not only did they sting all the worse, they were those same low spots Ella already knew she'd feel long afterward. How was she ever supposed to sit again?

Spank Ow Spank Ow Spank Ow Spank! On they went, like partners volleying on a tennis court - except that her soft bottom was no match for her Lover's hard hand, and in this match she was being soundly beaten! And the sounds of that beating were Spank Ow Spank Ow Spank Ow Spank!

''Oh oh please,'' she protested - a lot of these spanks should count as panties-down! Not that they would, and not that she thought otherwise for even a moment. Nonetheless Ella felt that some sort of protest was called for. Spank spank spank - spank spank spank spank! spank! spank! spank! spank! spank! spank! spank! spank! Ooooo, Sir knew just how to make her feel those! And Ella's poor little bottom did - each and every one!

Then quickly a lot more protest was very much called for!

''Oh no - really - no, please, no. Please?'' Her Lover had stopped spanking long enough to pluck at the waistband of her panties - and she did not want them down! She grabbed them herself and held on tightly. ''Not those - they don't make a difference anyway,'' she claimed, fibbing slightly - though she was always surprised what a difference they did make. One by one, Sir peeled her fingers from her Teal panties. And then they were gone.

Spank! spank! Her Creamy cheeks, only slightly colored by his gradual chastisement, were now fully under his hand - and eyes. Hold still! she told herself, wanting to minimize any jiggling or inappropriate exposure - try to hold still!

Spank! spank! Spank Spank! SPANK SPANK!

Maybe kicking and squirming was a better approach after all!

Spank! spank! Spank Spank! SPANK SPANK!

Suddenly he was in a hurry, a man with a mission. Now that he had her bare bottom in sight and squarely in his sights, he wanted it sore and stinging - both, a lot, and right now!

Spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank!
Spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank!
Spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank spank!

Couldn't Sir hear her at all? Nothing seemed to slow him down! Just as she thought her poor little bottom would burst into flames, her Lover's grip tightened! Her stomach followed suit as Ella recognized the meaning of this gesture!

''Oh no! No! No! OW! OH!'' His spanks rained down so much harder without slowing down at all. Her kicking and struggles became furious, but the harder she fought, the harder he spanked!

Spank! Spank!

SPANK! SPANK!

Spank! Spank!

SPANK! SPANK!

''OW OH OH OH OW OH OH!'' she cried. When, oh when, would this be over? And then, with frightening abruptness, it was!

''Now, Young lady, it's time we took care of this Forgetting Bluetooth ,'' Sir pronounced.

Oh no! The Red paddle - Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack! By the time she realized what was about to happen her Red paddle spanking was already well underway! Instantly the warmth of his hand was replaced by the sting of the Red paddle's rough poly. Oooo, did that hurt! Ella could never remember quite how much until she was feeling it - but as soon as she felt it she could remember - remember all too well!

Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack!

''No, no - stop! Enough! I'll be good! I promise! Oh owwwwww...''

''Isabella Nicole! Your Forgetting Bluetooth ? This is most certainly NOT enough, except that it's enough out of you. Now hold still. You know you've earned this - and more. If you're good you'll get a lot less of the ''more.''''

Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack!

Try as he might to be ''fair,'' when it came to Forgetting Bluetooth her Lover was strict. That Red paddle HURT!

Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack!

''No, no, not more - please, not more. Ow oh ow oh ow...''

Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack!

''No - no please! I'll be good! I've learned my lesson - I have!'' As well she may have - her usually Creamy cheeks shone from the Red paddle's harsh rough poly.

''Then hold still, Baby, so I can finish.'' And finish he did. With a flurry of Smack-Smack-Smack's he made sure she'd have no place to sit, not for a good long time. Then the hardest yet, right in the center - Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack Smack! Even as Ella recognized these as his final spanks she could take no relief as the barrage drove her past all limits of ''taking it.''

''Whaaa - aaa - ow - oooo - ooo - ooo - ooo - NO!''

''Okay, Ella. Okay, Baby. Breathe. Now breathe...'' Sir encouraged. As slowly as it had begun it just as suddenly ended. Slowly Ella calmed down and her breathing did steady a bit.

''Now, young lady - no more Forgetting Bluetooth - understood?'' Somehow Ella nodded her acquiescence. And as she returned the Red paddle to On top of the bookshelf, she never wanted to have anything to do with Forgetting Bluetooth , the Red paddle, or even her Lover sitting on storage bench - ever, ever again!

No choice but to take it..

If that paddle was red I would say this pic was an image taken from my bedroom!

Lets encourage Stormy!

Here is the link to the blog where Stormy will be able to read our encouraging comments!!

http://tryingtolearnlearningtotry.blogspot.com/2011/10/lets-encourage-stormy-everyone-in.html

Sometimes I wonder if DD is really helping me

So this week was a rough one. Started out bad and just got worse or at least that's how I am feeling. I don't know how to talk to Daddy about things that bother me or I don't agree with. It just spirals out if control and next thing we know it a big fight and we are just slinging mud. I got my Sun night maint spanking last night and it was harder and longer the nirmal since it had been such a bad day. afterwords I tried to have a calm chat with him about what had happens that day and how it made me feel. I feel like I am not allowed to get upset or angry anymore and I don't feel like I am being heard in my home or in some areas that are important to me in my marriage. This is the 4 time this week that I went to him with something and walked away with no conclusion that I can accept. Instead what I say during these conversations is used against me. Now I don't handle these chats well either, I feel under attack and get disrespectful, which just makes things worse. I got punished a second time last night, much harder then earlier. This time for leaving our bed to go sleep in the guest room. Around midnight he woke and realized I wasnt in bed and came and found me. I was the reminded what happens when a wife forgets her place and leaves her husbands bed with out permission and feels like she can do whatever she wants because she is upset with him. I woke up feeling confused and lost this morning. Daddy said every marriage has bumps and that's all this week was, just a bump. I am not sure that's all it was, but he is right that we have a good thing between us and we need to focus on that right now. Tommorow we head in our separate directions for the next two weeks, so tonight we will have a nice meal and I'm sure I will go to bed with a red hot bum, but as long as I get to snuggle after, I will willingly accept it.

WHAT HAPPEND TO MY IPAD DADDY???

So we ran an update on my Ipad last night that totally wiped it clean!!! all my story's, photos, my discipline journal and dairy, my task scheduler with my daily and weekly rule reminders and my homeschooling scheduler for our son.... all gone, content lost forever, because we didnt run the correct back up before hand!!! I was livid to say the least, angry and crushed.. I use my Ipad for my business and for almost everything I do and now I had to start over... hours and hours of work to remember what was on there and get it set back up and I felt a huge sense of loss at the stuff I could not get back. I was mad at him, he ran the update, he didnt back it up, how could he not have known?? He said he was sorry,it was a mistake, things happen, what could he do to make it better?? Nothing I yelled and then I cried, tears and all because I was soooo mad and sooo upset, hurt actually by what I had lost. I walked away and mumbled a bunch of bad words as I went. He stormed into the bedroom and told me to bend over. "Its not fair, dont do this!" I said through my tears. "No its not fair and I am sorry you lost somethings that were important to you, but if you dont lose this attitude I WILL wear your ass out today young lady." He said as he set the red paddle down and walked out. Later for the first time ever I said "Thank you for not spanking me this morning."...... He could have, maybe I had earned one, but it would have made a bad thing worse and I would have been in a mood all day! He is fair with me and I am glad I was allowed to pass this morning.

Ouch!

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What every girl should get on sweetest day!!

Lucky me.. mine is on the way.

A taste of the cane!

That sound...

These send chills down my spine and make me want to run and hide...
The red paddle being pulled down off the shelf
His belt being taken off the hook in the closet or being pulled off his pants ( and then used unfolded as a strap)
The swish of the cane
"Kendra get in the bedroom. Now!"
The soap begin taken out of it's container!
"Get your ass over the pillows and hold on tight, you have earned this and now your going to take it. If I have to tie you down, it's gonna be worse young lady!"

And these send chills down my spine and make me all Hot and bothered...
The wooden paddle being pulled down off the shelf
His belt being taken off the hook in the closet or being pulled off his pants (and folded in half)
The alarm on his phone going off reminding us it's time for maintenance session.
"I think we should have a chat, to help you keep being such a good girl, go in the bedroom and bend over Angel."
"Get your ass over the pillows and hold on tight, you have been teasing me in those tight jeans all day Baby."

Tuesday meltdown, Two nights of red hot tail

As I write this I am sitting on a very sore bottom. First I want to reflect on what happened last night and why it happened. 

On Tuesday Daddy called to say he wouldn't be home that night, things were not going well on the job site and he was needed. He tried very hard not to travel during our scheduled time together, but some times it has to happen. This was suppose to be a one night trip that was now going to be two. At this point I am sure that he was just as disappointed as I was, but instead of saying that and then being supportive,  I said nothing and slowly got more and more upset as the day went on. I felt myself spiraling out of control as the hours passed. I was upset, but not really sure why, I just knew I wanted Daddy home with me and felt like it didn't really bother him that he wasn't going to be. This was not a good way of thinking about what was going on and it wasn't fair to my husband either. I ended up lashing out at Daddy and was hurtful in the way I acted, the tone I used, and the things I said. He knew I was slipping up and tried to help my put the breaks on, he lectured me about the fact that I was out of line and had me put my cream on. I was still very upset and sent a few un needed texts, they were not the hateful texts I would have sent a few months ago, but they were still filled with anger. daddy called and again told me I was out of line and I was able to force myself to calm down by thinking about how hurt i would be if he treated me that way. By bed time I felt pretty awful, The day had started out well and I had been happy and excited. I had been doing so much better with everything since we stepped up our focus on DD.
I asked for DD, I knew it would help our marriage and it really has made a big difference. We are more in love, stronger as a couple, we handle conflicts better and communicate better. I have come to hate punishment spankings, but I also understand that this is the purpose of them. I know its not easy for my husband to give me punishments either. A maintenance session hurts and normally makes me cry, but doesn't bring me to tears (crying doesn't always mean tears for me, i fight tears because they usually are followed by a headache and exhaustion). I find the maintenance sessions effective as a reminder to behave. I am sore and tender after and when we use the ginger hurts alot. I do feel  super sexy laying on the bed with my bottom pushed in the air and my legs spread, knowing that my husband is going to spank me and fill my pussy with ginger to help me stay on track and focus, I have worked on taking all my disciplines better, staying in place during spankings and not fussing during other things. I still have a ways to go, but i do understand that it is my job to be submissive and accept these sessions and to the best of my ability to not make Daddys job of giving them to me harder. (About tears during punishment, I thing that when I cry during spankings it is as much from disappointment with myself for behaving so badly as well as for hurting my husband by not handling myself like a  proper young lady as it is from the pain of the swats. I can clearly remember each spanking that had brought me to tears and why I got them, 6 total over the last 2 years.. up until last nights spank, each time there were tears, Daddy had been very mad still during the spanking and I was not only afraid of the spanking but also of how mad he still was. last night, he was not still angry. we had time to think about it. I had already said I was sorry and I was truly sorry. It was the first time I was also very ready to accept a sever spanking because I knew it had been earned. Daddy spanked as hard as ever, because he had to, not because he was mad. and that had a very deep affect on me. The stern disciplinarian and the gentle husband at the same time. When I was told to lay on the bed for my second round of swats, the tears were flowing, for many reasons.) I worked hard to take my spanking well last night because I knew it was my own fault. I had know I would be facing the red paddle ( the most hated of all our implements) and it was right that he choose to use it. Its for when I have been a bad girl and thats what had happened. After one round with the cane, we had to stop since my bottom was blistered. I will have another session to face tonight, but I am surprised by the fact that I don't find this unfair. I didn't get my full spanking last night for safety reasons and I need it to learn this lesson fully as we'll as stay focused, so I will do my best to not fuss to much tonight and accept it like a good girl. Daddy said last night that we still have alot of work  to do. As much as that made me scared of the many necessary punishments that statement implied, it also really drove home the point that we are doing this together and that everything affects us both, wither it be my behavior or one of the many forms of discipline. We have each other to lean on and help through the rough parts and that makes it  a lot easier to handle. 6 months ago Tuesday would have ruined our whole week and I would have ended up getting a whipping, but we wouldn't have talked about the problem. I would have been angry about being treated so harshly and he would have been angry that I wouldn't take responsibly for any wrong doing, even thought I started the whole thing. It would have turned into a major issue in our marriage. Instead, we had a few hours where I was out of sorts, he lectured me down off the edge before it blew up. I realized I was in the wrong and took responsibility. We spent some time talking about it and we will do so again tonight. I have been punished, but I am not resentful I am grateful. We will come with a plan to avoid this problem in the future.. Instead of a week of fighting and strife, we had a few bad hours and a few days of working together and coming even closer together. That is why we do DD and I am lucky to have a husband who has decided not to let me ruin what we have and forces me to learn and grow and who learns and grows with me.

Rules and Punishments

Rules ---- to be followed at all times

No swearing at people or using very bad words
No texting and driving
Wear bluetooth when driving
No sending nasty text messages
Be respectful and keep attitude in check.
Ask before having any adult drinks.
Never, EVER hang up on Sir.
  

Daily / Weekly rules ---- things that must be done daily or on certain days

1.Vitamins for me each day
2. Vitamins for the kids each day
3. Charge bluetooth each night with phone.
4. Be up by 730 in Midwest and 630 in Northeast
5 Kids to school by 8.10 am each school day
6 Kids in bed by 830pm
7 Me in bed by 10pm
8 Work out 15 min on Mon, Wed, Fri
9 Clean self (enema) out on Sun, Wed, Fri
10 Home school stuff with little one, 45 min each day Mon - Fri
11 finish chores each day, set them at night with Sir.

Punishments  
1. Sunday and Wed are maintenance nights (both when we are together or apart 
2. Spankings ( whenever Sir feels they are needed and as long/hard as needed)
3. Loss of privileges ( Internet, IPad games, texting, ect.)
4. Mouth washed out with soap
5. Ginger root 
6. Pussy Balls, Anal Plugs or Nipple Clips
7. Anal sex
8. Early bed time
9. Time out / corner time
10. Grounding
11. Cream on bottom, makes it burn like I have just been spanked


We have a need for so many punishments as we are apart often and I am a bit of a spanko and we both enjoy some BDMS aspects in our bedroom activities. 

Island Vacation

This a work of fiction.. The wording is crude at times!


Ella started to wake as she felt his arm slip around her waist and then he pulled her across the bed, so that she was pressed up against him. She did not want to wake up yet, she had been having a wonderful dream and she could still feel the warm breeze and smell the fresh air that they had been enjoying before he woke her up. Then as she felt his hand slide up her tummy and cup her naked breast, she remembered that they were on vacation. That warm breeze, the fresh air, the sound of the waves just a few feet away, that hadn't been a dream. They were on a lush tropical island for the next week, they were going to take it easy, no rushing or over planning. They just wanted to enjoy each other and the beautiful land around them. As she wondered where they would adventure to today she felt his hand slip back down her tummy and then his fingers were pushing her legs slightly apart. She let out a small gasp as he started rubbing her clit and whispered "Good morning baby." in her ear. She came very quickly, his touch always had that affect on her, and the next thing she knew his fingers were deep inside her and she was squirming like crazy. He pulled his fingers out and put them in her mouth, she loved tasting her juices on his fingers. When she had sucking him clean, he put his hand back on her hip and pulled her closer to him and as he did that he pushed his cock deep into her wet warm pussy. She let out a yelp as he forced himself inside of her and then grabbed on to his other arm which was wrapped around her shoulder and over her chest. As she clung to him, he slowly slide his cock in and out of her, almost all the way out and the back deep inside with each stroke. She was beginning to sweat and the gentle breeze blowing in through the open widows and balcony doors felt amazing as it danced over her naked skin. Sir started to pump faster and Ella tried not to scream to loudly, but she was very sore from last night. It had been a long trip and she had gotten herself into a bit of trouble with her mouth along the way. As he fucked her hard from behind she was remind of how red her bottom had been last night and of the long hard hammering her pussy had received just a few hours ago. And then she was cumming again, she could feel her juices making the sheets wet beneath them, his hands on her hip and breast, her hands wrapped tightly around his arm, holding on as he made her cum over and over. Soon she was begging him to cum, telling him she couldn't take anymore. After a few more hard fast strokes she felt his cock start to swell even bigger, stretching her sore pussy even more, and then she felt him feel her completely as he came. They lay there in each others arms for a few minutes, not saying a word, just breathing heavily and enjoying the sounds around them. After a bit she said "Should I clean you Sir?" "MMM that would be nice young lady." "And if I get you hard aging?" "Well we will be heading to the outdoor shower on the deck in a few minutes, so you decide. I will be cumming in your mouth, its up to you, either its in bed or in the shower." "Maybe both" she whispered as she kissed him. "Oh this was going to be a very fun vacation." she thought to herself as she took his cock into her mouth....

clit and pussy, checking to see how wet she was, and as was always the case after a spanking, she was dripping wet. He took his hand out and put both hands on her hips and with on hard stroke, he forced his cock all the way into her pussy. She let out a yelp and tried to pull away a bit, but he held her hips firmly in place. When she stopped struggling he reached his hand around and started to work he clit as he steadily fucked her pussy. When he felt her body start to quack with an orgasm, he pulled out and pushed his cock deep into her ass. She screamed again, but also cam even harder then she had been a few seconds ago. He started to fuck her slowly, taking his time with her. He loved how tight her ass squeezed his cock and how good her checks felt pushed up against him. As he started to go a little faster he could hear her begin to whimper. Yes he was getting through to her this time. She might actually be good all day, although he would get his hopes up. He bent over a little and but on hand under her breast, cupping it tightly as he wrapped his other hand in her hair, pulling her head back slightly. He held his cock all the way in for a few moments to let her think about what was coming. She began crying harder and promising to behave. "We are almost done sweetie, are you ready?" he asked her. "Yes Sir.' she managed to choke out. "Good girl," he said and with that he put his hand back on her hips and gave it to her fast and hard. She screamed into the bed and gripped the sheets with all her might as he hammered his raging hard cock into her tight little ass over and over again. She was overwhelmed with both dread and relief (and maybe a little disappointment too) as she felt his cock swelling even bigger as he was about to cum. It would be over soon, but the last few strokes were always the hardest to take. His cock had her stretched so far she didn't think she could handle anymore, but then she felt him push all the way in and start to fill her with his hot cum. It felts so good as it rushed inside her and she could feel that warmth all over. When he finished, he slowly pulled out and then lay down on the bed, pulling her to him. "Good girl, I am proud of you." he said and then kissed her head as she snuggled up to him. He held her close, waiting for her whimpers to fade as she drifted off to sleep. They had both earned a nap and besides isn't that what vacations are for? Brunch would have to wait.

 It was now the last day of their trip and the day had gotten off to a rocky start. The plan was to get some lunch, since they never seemed to manage to get out of their villa before noon, then do some shopping and then it was off to see the waterfalls. As they were getting ready to leave Sir asked her if she really planned to wear those shoes. She frowned at him and asked what was wrong with her shoes, she loved them and they went with her outfit perfectly. "We are going to be doing a lot of walking today Young Lady, and I am sure those shoes will lead to either very sore feet or an injury." "Your just being a jerk, I like my shoes and I think they will be just fine." "Its your feet and ass that will be sore if they aren't." Before she thought about it she replied "Oh whatever its not that big of a deal and your not gonna spank me over a pair of freaking shoes." As soon as it was out of her mouth she knew she was in trouble.  He gave her THE LOOK and her heart sank. It took him less the 10 seconds to pick up her hairbrush,  grab her by the arm and haul her over his knee. With a swift movement the skirt of her dress was flipped up and she felt the sting from the first swat. He gave her 10 hard swats with his hand while telling her that this was for her attitude. Once he had her bum warmed up, he picked up the brush and she began to panic and plead with him not to spank her anymore. "You got yourself into this mess with that disrespectful little mouth of your, now this day is going to go much differently then I had planned. You are going to get spanked right now for your attitude, and all though we don't have soap here to address the fact that you said whatever and freaking, I am sure I can find a fix for that while we are shopping. I plan on helping you remember to keep yourself in check all day and then this evening you can plan on going over the back of that arm chair for the paddle and the cane, the number of strokes you will receive will depend on how you behave today, so for your sake hope you learn your lesson right now. And with that he started to spank, he ignored her cries and yelps as he blistered her bottom. he stopped after 30 swats and asked her if she understood that he was not going to tolerate her speaking to him or anyone else that way. She said yes she did and she should have been more respectful in the way she answered him. He stood her up, kissed her and wiped away her tears. "Now its up to you, you can wear those shoes if you think they will be comfortable all day, but I am warning you, if you get hurt or if yo have to take them off, you will be punished for not obeying me." "I like them Sir, and I think they will be fine. I want to wear them." She replied. "Its your call baby, just remember what I said." Ella straightened herself up and they headed out.

She had a bit of a hard time sitting still as her ass was still on fire, but she managed not to squirm too much. After they ate they went to a cute little row of shops she had been waiting all week to check out. By the time their reached the second shop she knew she was in trouble. She could feel a small blister forming on her heel and she realized that Sir was right about her shoes. He noticed she was walking slower then normal and was babying one foot "Do we need to find you a different pair of shoes Ella? And before you answer let me remind you that if you lie to me and you end up really hurt, I will have to double you punishment." She answered him in a sheepish voice "Yes Sir they are hurting my feet. You were right and I should have listened to you." They found a cute pair of comfy shoes for her and she tried to bargain with him a bit. "I would have gotten these shoes while we were shopping today anyway, so cant we just forget about the punishment Sir?" "The punishment is not about the money we spent on the shoes Ella, its about you being stubborn and ignoring my direction." He said in a firm tone that shut her up. The next shop they stopped into was an organic products shop. As she looked at candles and other things, she noticed out of the corner of her eye that he was looking at some creams and then took a few items to the register. Once he had cashed out he came over to her, took her gently by the arm and guided her towards the door. "The cashier was kind enough to let me know where the family restroom was. I believe we have a few things we need to chat about before we go anywhere else. So come along Young Lady and don't make things any worse by fussing or complaining. "Yes Sir." was all she could manage for a response. When they reached the restroom he ushered her in and lead her to the corner. "You just stand there for a few moments and think about all the reasons we are here right now." Ella was blushing deeply, she could not believe he was going to punish her here. He had never done anything like this before and she was totally unprepared for what was going on. After a few moments, he told her to go to the sink and bend over. She did what she was told and she could feel tears welling up already and he had  yet to do anything to her. From the bag he had taken out a bar of soap and a tube of lotion. "The soap will serve two purposes here, first it will wash that dirty mouth of yours out for saying whatever and freaking. Your know thats not allowed don't you?" "Yes Sir" "Second it will muffle your cries and screams over the next few minutes." She let out a small whimper when he said that and was dreading what was coming, even though she had no idea what it was. He had her open her mouth and shoved the bar half way in. It tasted awful and she looked at him in the mirror trying to plead with him with her eyes. As he bared her bottom he said "I hope that tastes nasty, maybe next time you will think before you speak." Then she watched as he started to undo his belt and then pulled it free. "You are going to get 40 licks of the belt for the shoes issue. If you let go of the sink or get out of position, then that one wont count and I will give it to you again. This can be over fairly quickly or we can be here all day, its up to you." She watched in fear as he folded the belt in half and brought his arm way up and then brought it down fast and hard. The belt crashed into her naked waiting ass with a crack and it took all her will power to stay in place. The spanking proceeded at a steady pace and as the pain and heat built up she was struggling more and more to stay in position. He could see her distress and moved so that he had a knee under her and his hand on her lower back to help keep her in place. By the time he finished, her ass was a deep red and her thighs were marked as well. She had tears rolling down her face as she watched him put his belt back on, but he didn't buckle it. "You were defiant today and you know I take that very seriously, so I am sure you have a clue whats coming next dont you?" She couldnt even look at him as she sobbed harder and nodded her head yes. With that he reached down and pulled his cock free, he rammed it deep into her soaked pussy and gave her about 20 long hard strokes. The soap in her mouth was muffling her screams, but he could still hear her. He reached forward and pulled her breast free from her dress and whispered in her ear "I plan on making sure that tonight I will have to tie you down in order for you to take whats coming." Then he pulled out and her screams reached a new level of fear as he pushed  into her ass. He hammered away at her long and hard, until he could no longer hold back. When he pulled out, he reached down and helped her into a standing position. "hold your skirt up so I can see your bottom clearly" he said and then lead his naughty little girl back to the corner, where he applied the lotion to her blazing checks. "That should make you ass feel freshly spanked for about the next 4 or 5 hours, hopefully it will help you stay out of trouble for the rest of the day!" When he had finished getting himself freshened up, he called her to him.  Her sobs had subsided a bit and she was a bit calmer. He took the soap from her mouth and tossed the bar in the trash and then pulled her into a hug. "I am proud of you for taking that so well Young Lady, now rinse your mouth out and get yourself together and come meet me at the coffee shop across the hall."

When Ella emerged she was still flush from her strapping and she was blushing deeply aging, wondering if anyone had over heard her ordeal. She gingerly took a set at the table where Sir was waiting and weakly smiled and thanked him for the drink he had waiting for her. "You can rest in the car on the way to the waterfalls sweetie" he told her. "Thank you Sir" "How did that soap taste?" It was the worse ever!" "And how does that lotion feel?" "My bottom feels like I got double the amount you gave me, maybe even more!" "Good then we will head back over to that nice little shop and pick up some more of each." She stared at him in stunned silence trying to figure out if he was joking with her. "Come on, we should go so you can take a nap, you have earned one for sure." She couldn't believe he was going to get more of those horrid things, but he did, and not only that but as they were cashing out he said to the cashier "We tried out the soap and the lotion and she really dislikes them both, so they were perfect! Thanks so much." The cashier winked and said "While when you said you had a bratty girl to punish, I thought they would do the trick!" Then to Ella she said "That sting is going to last all day." Ella was so embarrassed she thought about telling them both where to go, but then she thought twice. What made the whole situation worse was that they seemed to know what she had thought! "See it does work wonders, just as I said it would." the cashier called after them as they walked out.

When  they got to the car Sir opened Ella's door for her and took her into his arms before she climbed in. "You can be such a good girl, you just need extra training every now and then to remind you who your Master is. I have a special treat planned for you this afternoon out by the waterfalls. Your going to really enjoy it, I promise. So cheer up little one." She smiled up at him and they kissed long and deep. Then she remembered what would be coming after they returned to the villa. He had said the paddle and the cane, plus restraints! As she thought this she stiffed up a bit in his arms, and again it was if he could read her mind. "Well yes there is all that, but that wont be until later so don't fret about it now. Besides I will help you take it, I always do." This time she said out loud "Thats what I am afraid of." "Smart girl." he said with a chuckle as he walked to his door.

 It did not take Ella long to fall asleep after the ordeal she had just been through, and Sir rubbed her head gently as she rested. All though she was sleeping she could feel his touch and sense his gentleness, she smiled sweetly through her nap. When the car finally came to stop she wake and stretched. "We are here baby, you slept the whole hour! I guess I wore you out huh?" He asked. "Yes Sir, you sure did!" They got their stuff from the car and headed down the trail, Ella noticed there was no one around and commented on that as they walk. The scenery was beautiful and she could hear that falls in the distance. She took in all the sights and sounds, but her favorite part was just getting to hold his hand as they walked.As they reached the waterfall, Ella could here the rushing water and all the sounds of nature. She again became aware of the fact that it was just them. When they rounded the bend she could see a gorgeous gazebo tent set up to the left of the waterfall and lagoon. He had arranged for them to have this beautiful area to themselves so that she could enjoy it without interruption. The tent had a cozy dining table set for the two of them as well as a chaise lounge covered in lush pillows. The warm breeze was blowing the curtains gently and there was a slight mist every now and then from the water as it cascaded into the pool below the falls. She felt as though she was dreaming and wondered if this could all be for real. It was the most amazing thing she had ever seen or experienced, but when she leaned against the table, her sore bottom informed her that she was not dreaming. For once she was very grateful for that reminder! She was speechless as she took it all in and she just melted into his arms as he came behind her and wrapped them around her waist. "You did all this? For me?" she asked. "Yup, I wanted our last day here to be truly unforgettable, I wanted to give you a once in a life time experience. There is a lunch with all you favorite things in the cabinet over there. We have this area all to ourselves for the next few hours. We can relax, make love, enjoy some amazing food, make love or whatever you like sweetheart." And as he spoke this words into her ear, she began to cry softly, "I feel awful for being so bad earlier! Your  put so much time into setting this up and I was acting like a brat this morning because I was upset that it was our last day here." He turned her around and took her chin into his hand, tilting her head up and forcing her to look him in the eye. "I understood why you were acting up this morning and I know you well enough to know what you needed to get back to being my sweet girl. So I have forgiven you for your naughty behavior, but if you need help to move on, I can spank you again so that we can enjoy our afternoon here in paradise. Is that what you need baby?" She just closed her eyes and as a single tear slipped down her check, she whispered "Yes Sir, I think so." He took her by the arm and lead her over to the chaise. He sat at the end and pulled her over his lap. "I am going to give you along warm up with my hand, then you will get the small paddle that I brought with me just in case we needed it. There is no one around to hear you, so scream and cry as loud as you need to. Even though you are not getting this spanking because I am upset with you, it will be long and as hard as I feel is needed to help you move forward. I am sure after a few swats you will want me to stop, but I am going to spank you until I know for sure you have let go of all those negative feelings.  Do you understand?" "Yesss Siirrr." was her tearful reply. He lifted up her skirt and for the third time that day, he pulled down her panties. He gently rubbed her bottom and her thighs. "You really are a good girl and I am so proud of you. We are going to start now so hold on to the pillow tightly Young Lady." She did as she was told and the first swat lands on her already tender bottom. It wasn't that hard but he kept a steady pace and slowly the swats became harder. As she began to squirm and yelp, he tightened his arm around her waist to hold her in place and continued to redden her ass. Through out he remind her to breath, to relax and except her spanking, and that she was a good girl, his good girl. After a long time, he stopped and slipped his hand between her legs, where he find what he expected, she was wet, very very wet. He pushed his fingers deep into her and slowly fucked her until she came. He put his fingers in her mouth and she greedily sucked them clean. He then picked up the paddle and began spanking again. This time she was screaming and crying with in a few swats, but true to his word he didn't stop until she was crying freely and had stopped struggling against him. As she lay spent, sobbing and sweaty over his lap, he told her to spread her legs and he gently pushed the paddles handle into her pussy. This makes her scream out, but more in pleasure then in pain.  He fucks her with the paddle until she cums hard for him. He then removes the paddle and wipes it off on her bum. "You need a few more swats I think." he said. She was crying into the pillow as he gave her ten more swats each of which she took without fussing at all, not because they didn't hurt, but because she was overwhelmed by not only the spanking, but also the sounds, the scents and emotions. When he slipped his fingers into her pussy again she came instantly and this time she passed out.

Perfect